You see, it isn't age that matters, it's experience and maturity. If I'm going to commit to spending my life with a woman, I'd rather start the process after she's stretched her wings a bit. When people marry young I think a sense of "what if" kicks in and that may cause her heart to stray a bit. I think I've seen it happen. You're at a point in your life where you can change dramatically. Sure, some people say that if you get "her" early enough, you can train her to fit into your life. I'd rather wait until she's been out on her own at least a little. Think of it as buying pre-shrunk clothing. You don't have to worry about the fit changing because it has already occurred. Of course, life isn't clothing. We are all in a constant state of change, but I do think that changes are less dramatic the farther down the road of life you go. There are cataclysmic events that can alter your course, but the tendency is to settle into some sort of routine. Wait a year or two and then we'll see where we are at. Things could still work out. Of course, there's no guarantee of that and I for one don't intend to spend a lot of time considering it. There are too many variables and too many mere speculations to plan anything concrete. There are too many things I don't know about you and too much idle talk to take it seriously. So after 2 years of relative freedom and after you dump him for cheating on you and all of the other crap that happens in life then we can talk about it. Until then there just isn't any point. It's all just make believe anyway. I have no clue if any of it means anything or not. I'm thinking about it too much, but that's what I do. Think about things too much.

go easy on me. That's all I ask.