Wow, so much to consider. So far I'm not feeling overwhelmed or over stressed. A little apathy can go a long way sometimes. I do wish the paths were clearly marked.

As to her question of what most makes me nervous about getting married... Maybe part of it is just the reality of the situation sinking in. I'm getting married. :D it still sounds weird. Ahh but it makes so much sense when we're together. This is probably the best decision I've ever made.